Thank you for taking the time to send in your question sister. What you describe is a very common problem with children of your daughter’s age. It seems that some days they will eat anything and on other days they refuse to even eat their favourite foods. This is particularly annoying when you have purchased a large packet of the cereal that they liked last week and they refuse to eat it this week!
At the age of two children are starting to realise that they have some control over the world around them, one of the major areas they can control is that of food. The thought process seems to go “mum can cook it and serve it but she can’t make me eat it”! It is important to avoid getting into a power struggle with your daughter about food.
I suggest that you offer your daughter three meals and two snacks a day. Try to avoid sugary sweets or biscuits and offer healthy options. Keep in mind that it’s common for toddlers to skip meals. Allowing children to skip a meal can be difficult for parents but it is important for your daughter to experience both hunger and feeling full so she can develop good, normal eating habits. Don’t push food if she is not hungry, but don’t allow her to eat on demand all day long either.
Maintain a regular schedule of meals and snacks so that she will come to expect that food will be available at certain times of the day.
It might also be helpful to make sure that she has her milk or other drink after her meal so that she doesn’t fill up on fluids instead of eating.
The fact that she is very active is a good sign that she is getting sufficient nutrition. If you are concerned about her growth then your GP can weigh her and reassure you that she is growing normally.
*Dr Aisha is a qualified medical specialist with experience in general practice and care of cancer patients, she is registered to practice in Western Australia. We are not able to publish her full name due to restrictions on advertising for doctors.
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